Tips for Success

The "secret"

Fitness and healthy living is something that most people want but aren't necessarily willing to work for. And many of those who try find themselves struggling to keep it up after a while. If you want to succeed, you must remember that fitness should be, more or less, indefinitely sustainable. If you're willing to work hard for something, don't you want to keep what you've earned and not retrogress? As much as common sense as that may seem, the reversal of progress happens fairly often to those who find themselves in trying circumstances. I've done it myself many times but I never fail to get back on the horse and drive forward again.

The secret to success is this: never give up, and always keep going. Failure only truly happens when you give up. There are many successful people in history who first had to face failures of their own. Almost no one gets it right the first time.

Chinese Proverbs are even better in Courage Wolf form.

Many people encounter difficulty in pursuit of their own goals. When these things happen, one often blames him or herself for being too weak-minded. Usually, temporary failures are taken too gravely, which leads to prematurely giving up-- usually with hollow justifications. "I'm not cut out for this," "I'm just genetically predisposed to look this way," "The effort isn't worth it for the results I'm getting," "It's not worth it anyway," etc. Don't fall for the trap, and keep trying. It will be worth it.
Still, there are several things you can do to prevent yourself from falling off the track, so to speak. Some of these seem like no-brainers, but you'd be surprised how people rarely utilize them.

Think positive

It's easy to become discouraged when you're struggling with your own progress in the gym and you see someone who is about 5 years' worth of work ahead of you, and a little voice inside your head says "I'll never get there." Don't listen to that voice, and don't compare yourself to others. The only important competition that is going on is between you and your past self. It's amazing how far you can get if that is your primary focus.

Sometimes, children's books are incredibly profound.

As Henry Ford said, "Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right." If you're a relatively healthy person, there is nothing keeping you from looking like a model one day, if you so desire. It's very possible and it's not as hard as you think. It just takes a lot of time, dedication, and patience. 

Use music to your advantage

Music has the potential to make exercise a lot more enjoyable. Of course there's the fact that it helps distract your mind from thinking "man, this sucks." But it can also motivate you or give you a psychological energy boost. It can even alter your brain waves for the better.

Personally, I hate most of the music that plays on the gym intercom. First of all, it's mostly just background noise with pretty bad audio quality, and, secondly, it's usually just overplayed or just plain crappy mainstream music. Do yourself a favor and bring your own audio device with some decent earphones. Music is a lot more helpful when you choose it yourself.

Just don't wear over-the-ear headphones at the gym. They make you look like an idiot.

You can also customize playlists to better tailor them to the type of exercise you are doing. For instance, a running playlist would be very different from a weightlifting playlist. My running playlist is laughably cliche but I've found that it actually helps a lot. It even helps me keep track of my pace if I run the same route every time, and remember where I was the time before when a certain part of a song plays.

Be Smart

It is not the best idea to show up to the gym and make up your own workout unless you are confident that you know what you're doing. Too many people fail because they do the same thing every time and just end up going through the motions. Your body adapts to change; when your workouts stagnate, so will your progress. Simply getting on a cardio machine for half an hour and moving around some weights will not get you the results you seek. You must continually force your body to adapt, and it's easier than you'd think to accomplish that. Find a workout regimen that is compatible with your goals and stick to it.

The only thing this accomplishes is a waste of time.

You should try to push your limits. Leaving your comfort zone is what will get you the fastest results. Try to make a small improvement over what you did last time. Challenge yourself, but don't overdo it. You should never regret a workout once it's over with-- working through pain is not worth it. It is one thing to leave your comfort zone and test your limits; it is another if you feel nauseous, hypoglycemic, or otherwise terrible and you feel the obligation to keep going.

Don't jump headfirst into a program and try too much too soon. Gradually increase the difficulty of your workouts if you are not in the greatest shape. This way you won't burn yourself out and condition yourself to view exercise as a painful and torturous thing. You shouldn't be dead tired a full hour after finishing your workout, either.

If your goal is fat loss, exercise isn't going to do much if your diet still sucks. Track your Calories if possible. Likewise, if your primary goal is to put on muscle, you must eat a caloric surplus, and tracking your food intake is a good idea as well.

Create your own energy if it doesn't come naturally

Often, the main reason people can't keep up a fitness regimen is a simple lack of energy. It seems that a lot of people in very good shape and health have, unsurprisingly, type A go-get-'em personalities. Of course this seems like an unfair advantage to most of us normal people, as we don't have that kind of naturally hyperactive drive and energy, but don't use that as an excuse. There are plenty of people who don't have a seemingly infinite supply of energy but still achieve their goals in spite of that. Just because something won't come as easily to you as it does to others means you shouldn't pursue it, or that it's out of your reach, or even that it's particularly more difficult.

I've already discussed how important it is for you to get enough water, nutrition, and sleep in order for you to function well both mentally and physically, and how stimulants can help dramatically if you have the desire to exercise but simply don't have the energy or drive to do so. Some stimulants can even make you temporarily feel like you have that type A personality, and it really is amazing the difference that they can make. Just remember that you're not limited to caffeine-- the market for pre-workout supplements exists for a reason.

I really like this stuff, if you haven't figured that out yet.

When you actually go to the gym, it is a good idea to not do so on an empty stomach. A modest amount of carbs and protein beforehand can make a huge difference in allowing you to sustain energy throughout your workout by having amino acids and glucose readily available for use by your body.

Warming up is important too. It may seem silly to some people, but doing some moderately easy motion for a while to get oxygenated blood flowing and your brain engaged can help immensely.

Sometimes, when you simply feel apathetic or not into it, you just need to pump yourself up. If you're a naturally calm and low-energy person like I am, it's amazing what it can do. Some suggestions: Listen to loud, intense music. Jump around. Take several quick, deep breaths. Slap yourself. Splash some water on your face. Make loud noises. Shake out your hands. Remind yourself of someone you hate, and think violent thoughts. Again, this can make a world of difference. You don't have to be as intense as this guy, but you get the idea:

Likewise, when doing any kind of exercise, especially lifting weights, you must have the right mindset. Do not view it as having to reluctantly do something-- view it as a challenge that you are willing to face head-on with the intention of winning. Dominate the exercise; don't let it dominate you.

Often, exercise in itself will raise your energy levels through the next day or so, making it easier to do your next workout, resulting a sort of momentum effect. Get the ball rolling and it's not so hard to keep it going. Sometimes the energy boost is very noticeable and it can help put you in a good mood and make you an overall happier and more lively person.

Find a partner (if you can help it)

A major reason as to why personal trainers are so prevalent is that working out alone is tougher than with some company, especially when you're learning the ropes. I had a trainer when I was getting started and to be honest I had no idea what I was doing before then. It helped immensely but eventually I outgrew the need for a trainer, who turned out to be not that great at his job anyway.

Trust me, it's not funny if I need to explain the joke.

Whether it's a trainer or a friend, exercising with someone else can honestly make it a lot more enjoyable and a lot less painful. With a friend, it's even better if you are in similar shape; you can make it a competition and it's amazing what that can accomplish. Even if you're at different levels, simply encouraging and challenging one another can be very helpful.

Let your progress and goals drive you

Of course it helps to visualize what kind of results you want to achieve, but don't make the mistake of focusing on the distance and failing to pay attention what's going on in the short term. Making progress and seeing incremental results is often the key for things to click, and for internal motivation to really kick in. But sometimes it's hard to notice these changes in your daily life.

Recording your progress can be really encouraging when you look back upon what you've accomplished to date. Taking progress pictures and recording your weight every week is a very good habit to make. Week-to-week changes might not be astounding, but on larger timescales you will start to realize just how much you've accomplished, and it can inspire you to go even further.

Setting and subsequently meeting goals can have a very similar effect. If you don't set goals, it's easy to lose sight and focus of what you're doing in the short term. Since success in the short term is necessary for success in the long term, goals along the way are important. Just make sure you write them down so you can keep track. It's much more empowering to see what you aspired to in the past and then victoriously check it off than to surpass a simple notion in your head. Once all those completed goals start to add up, you can look back and say, "hey, I did that!"

These are some good guidelines to follow.

Your goals can be small, like performing a certain number of reps in an exercise, running a distance under a set time, completing a workout you planned, and meeting your caloric goals for the day, or more substantial like hitting a target weight and being able to squat a set weight. You can make as many as you want, however you want. Set goals and surpass them; you'll be amazed at how empowering and motivating that is.


While this is by no means an exhaustive list of things you can do to help make your aspirations into reality, take advantage of them-- you'll be happy you did.

Motivation

Whether you want to lose weight, put on muscle, or generally look better, there's always the issue of motivation. Sometimes you'll genuinely want to make the change lack a sufficient drive to do it (or to continue doing it). That is when you need some motivation. There are two basic types of motivation: external (extrinsic) and internal (intrinsic).

External motivation is what gets you started and what gets the ball rolling. Inspirational pictures, videos, success stories, quotes, et cetera. It works well, but it it ultimately increases your desire instead of your drive. Thankfully, though, they are connected.

Courage Wolf is awesome. This picture was actually my desktop background for a while.

Searching for "body transformation" on YouTube is usually pretty damn awesome. However, in the long run, WHATEVER YOU DO, JUST DON'T DO THIS. Interestingly enough, though, there is a trainer who did the exact opposite (make sure to read the points at the end of the article too; they're good).

There are countless more inspirational videos out there, and instead of doing some Google searching you could do yourself, I'll just show you one of my favorites: "How Bad Do You Want It?"

Internal motivation (r/GetMotivated is a nice bridge between the two) is the drive that keeps you going. Since internal motivation is determined by your own mind, you have to generate it yourself, and no amount of inspirational pictures will keep you going to the gym when you simply don't want to. Usually, seeing results is a huge boost for internal motivation. Before long, you'll have momentum on your side and dedication should follow naturally, so thankfully you won't need to be intensely motivated all the time.

What it means

Think of it this way: external motivation will get you to the gym; internal motivation will enable you to push yourself and work hard. External motivation is what gets you started on a run; internal motivation is what keeps you going and prevents you from giving up prematurely. A problem that a lot of people have is not being able to either generate internal motivation or internalize motivation that was originally extrinsic. In fact, it is very doable and does not require the willpower of a Buddhist monk. You just have to seek it out, and come to terms with the fact that if you really want something, you have to make it happen. Nothing worthwhile in life comes freely.

Just in case you're a visual learner.

The takeaway message is this: motivation is not something that some people are simply gifted with and others are not. You have the ability to find your own if you truly want to meet your goals but have trouble fulfilling them.

Hydration

Roughly 60% of your body is composed of dihydrogen monoxide: H2O. I don't even need to express how important it is because you already know that you'd die after a few days without it.

Just in case you never received basic science education.

Okay, so water is really, really, important to your well-being aside from your survival. You get that. Maybe you've even experienced moderate dehydration from a nasty hangover and you already get the point. But here's the thing: most people don't drink enough water and as a result are dehydrated without even knowing it. 

Sure, you can get through your day just fine being a little dehydrated. But it's simply suboptimal. Being a tiny bit dehydrated is almost undetectable in terms of thirst, but mood and energy will usually suffer, and it would even be obvious that your symptoms will be from dehydration. It will usually feel like you're having a crappy day. It is a really good idea to keep a water bottle with you most of the time to make it easier to stay hydrated. I carry around a metal bottle with a cap that pops open with the push of a button; some people prefer Nalgenes (or, you could get the best of both worlds).

I'm not a fan of disposable water bottles. Sure, there's the whole wasteful aspect of it (I'm no hippie but it's appalling), but bottled water is stupidly expensive. I never buy bottled water. Unless you're a water snob (you'd better not be buying the stuff from the municipal supply), I suggest you drink tap water (you can filter it if you want). However, if the thought of drinking tap is just too much for you to handle, do yourself a favor and get tea (green tea is good) or something else instead-- at least you won't be ripped off.

I don't always buy bottled drinks, but when I do...

Exercise is great because it makes you much more aware of otherwise undetectable levels of dehydration. You often end up drinking more water than you sweat and breathe out, which is a contributing factor to exercise making you feel better.


However, there's another side to this that I have experienced all too often: sometimes I'll drag myself to the gym feeling lethargic and tired, even if I am relatively well-rested and well-sustained by food, and it's mostly a mystery as to why I feel so incredibly weak; it's a physical state as well as a mental one that I just can't work though. Perhaps you have experienced it too, and as you may have already guessed, this is another case of mild dehydration. Remember, thirst is not the only symptom of dehydration.

Drink your hypotonic fluids, people; you'll be glad you did.

Personal Trainers

I'm going to say it right now: the majority of personal trainers suck at their jobs. The ones that don't are usually expensive. If you're a personal trainer and reading this, I'm not attacking you; I'm speaking in generality here. Of course there are plenty of good ones, but statistically speaking they are in the minority.

Certifications of personal trainers are mostly arbitrary, like a college degree is to a Starbucks barista. Just because you have a fancy piece of paper, it doesn't automatically make you special. Heck, I just saw an ad for this certification that can be done completely online.

However, real certifications, especially anything geared toward strength or conditioning or athletic performance, such as the CSCS certification, are very good. There are several good undergraduate degrees that can get people started in the right direction as well.
 
I should know because I've had a personal trainer in the past; turns out that he didn't really know what he was doing. He was a good guy and all, fun to be around while working out, but didn't exactly get the job done after the first couple of months. And it wasn't just him. I know people who have employed the help of trainers and gotten much less than their money's worth. And I see trainers having their clients do the stupidest stuff sometimes.

LOL.

Now, that's not to give trainers a bad rap. There are plenty of good ones out there, and even the mediocre ones can be worth it in the short term. My trainer put a good bit of muscle on me in the first couple of months, simply because I started lifting weights on a regular basis and ate a lot more protein. It worked for a while, until my body adapted. I ended up on a plateau that lasted for the last several months I was with him. Sure, it was hard work all the way through, but you have to train smart, and not just hard, if you want continued progress.

Then I went to college and trained the same way I was taught, because that was all I knew. I also decided that I plateaued earlier because I wasn't eating enough, so I fixed that.
It didn't work.

The next semester, I stopped kidding myself. It was obvious that what I did in the Fall was a complete failure. I was not happy with the way I looked. I needed to do something new.
So I did P90X. And I got some pretty decent results. And I realized that I had wasted so much time and effort in the months before.
But that was OK, because I was finally moving forward again.
And that was the beginning of what led me to learn a lot of things through research and real-life experience, and eventually start this blog.

Currently, I'm halfway training, halfway working out with a friend of mine. I am sure I will get some good results out of him because, unlike most personal trainers, I am continually learning more and more about fitness and nutrition, and a lot of times the hard way. Plus it makes going to the gym more enjoyable for both of us.

In the end, most trainers that are subpar tend to overcomplicate things. As a rule of thumb, if a trainer has clients use the swiss ball a lot, he or she doesn't know what the hell they are doing.

 This is retarded.

Keep It Simple, Stupid.

Energy and Metabolism

Foreword

A lot of topics in this post are complementary to (and some unavoidably redundant with) my post On Weight Loss in general. This is more geared for troubles you may encounter while doing so, and what you can do about it.

A common problem

For most of us normal people, energy is not something that comes by easily. A lot of the time, it's what prevents people from working out in the first place because day-to-day life is draining enough.

I've been in that situation many times; I usually fall off the proverbial horse at the waning time of each semester, and

just not having enough energy to exercise on a regular basis, so some knowledge in this post is stuff I learned the hard way.

I'm a pretty low-energy person most of the time. I'm very susceptible to "the blahs." I believe I have a naturally subpar metabolism, and as a result I'm a bit more lethargic and lazy than the average person. If you're like that too, I hope some helpful things from this post that I figured out the hard way.

Energy and metabolism go hand-in-hand. A higher metabolism means your body uses more energy, and therefore makes you more energetic. That explains why most naturally lean people seem to never run out of juice, and it seems a bit unfair at first considering that the ones who really need that energy are the ones who aren't naturally thin or athletic. However, there is good news: our metabolisms are not set, and fortunately we can do a few things to fire them up.

Sleep

 I'm a night owl but I love to sleep. I'm definitely not a morning person; it takes forever to get going in the morning, and I will sleep 10 or 11 hours a night if I don't set an alarm.

Sleep is a huge factor in regulating energy levels. Not only does it need to be sufficient (it varies individually; some people only need 8 hours or less), but also somewhat consistent. This has a lot to do with hormones. When things get out of whack, your body will do what it can to fix that, usually by making you tired all the time.

Artificial light can really confuse your brain. So can a timezone shift. Ever had jet lag?

When I "fell off" the horse so to speak near the end of the semester, my sleep schedule and biorhythms were FUBAR. Some days I had 8 AM classes, and on others my day started at noon. I ended up staying up late all the time but taking naps on a regular basis; I discovered later that these long naps were ultimately not helping to regulate my hormones (the all-nighters didn't help, either). Power naps (< 30 minutes) are usually great because it gives you a boost of energy to help you take on the rest of the day without sending you into deep sleep and subsequently messing up your hormonal cycle.

Stress (the hormone cortisol) can be a real problem if it gets out of control. Having a regular and adequate sleep schedule can do very well to prevent this from happening, because cortisol is a really bad thing to have too much of. If you have chronically high levels of it, it can do a bunch of things to make you feel bad and kill your metabolism.

Nap minimally and sleep at fairly regular hours if you want to work with, rather than against, your hormones. To facilitate this goal, keep artificial light to a minimum when it gets late. It is worth noting, though, that getting in shape will often improve chronic medical conditions of all kinds.

Exercise

The ironic thing about exercise is that it actually increases your metabolism by a substantial amount for at least a day, but people (including myself) will still avoid it if they don't feel they have enough gas in the tank to do so. This explains, in part, the phenomena of getting on "the horse" or "the wagon."

Or, you can do both!

 
The degree of metabolism boost varies with type and intensity of exercise, but generally anaerobic (e.g., weightlifting) activity is much more effective than aerobic (e.g., plain cardio) exercise. This is tied to the fact that anaerobic exercise is superior for weight loss; a higher metabolism means more fat can be burned for energy. I've talked about this in detail in my past posts.

Food AND Exercise are crucial to success

Food is energy. It shouldn't surprise you that if you don't eat enough and don't exercise, your energy levels will drop. Your body likes to conserve energy, because it's a survival mechanism: eat less, burn less. It's quite good at conserving energy when there is a scarcity of food. "Calories in - Calories = Calories Lost/Gained" out is still valid (thanks to thermodynamics), but Calories out is a function of Calories in, among many other things. This is why dieting without exercise isn't very effective most of the time, and why "weight loss calculators" based on calorie intake almost never work. The energy balance becomes useless for calculations when you can't easily determine Calories out. Your body doesn't care that you want to lose weight; it just does its thing and isn't going to burn fat unless it has to. So if you diet and don't exercise, your metabolism will slow down. And when that happens, your energy levels will drop, you may feel like crap, and eventually it will get to the point where you won't have the energy to exercise, and your diet will ultimately "fail."

Fortunately, exercise will force your body to pump up your metabolism in spite of low energy intake from food. This is why both diet and exercise are needed for substantial fat loss.

On the flipside, too much exercise and not enough food will cause you to "burn out." Eating very few calories is not really "dangerous" but your body can only surrender so much fat in a day. When the caloric deficit becomes too large, your body will slow down and your energy will drop.

Consistency is key. I've said it before and I'll say it again: Livestrong.com's MyPlate is an excellent food tracker that I HIGHLY RECOMMEND if you're having trouble losing weight, or want to do things right the first time. If you're doing some form of exercise but not making progress, chances are that your diet needs work. Don't forget that protein is #1. Sometimes, meat is better than fruits or veggies as far as looking better is concerned.

Stimulants

So, let's say you're doing everything right, but you just don't have the drive to work out. If all else fails, stimulants are a surefire way to increase your energy and/or metabolism. Some people need them all the time; others just need it as an occasional boost.

 Stimulants in a nutshell.

Of course there's the #1 drug in the world, caffeine, that some people depend on almost every day to get their day started. Sometimes, that's all it takes, but there's always more out there if it's not good enough for you.

As a lazy college student, I don't even bother:

200 mg pills are not recommended on an empty stomach.

Weight-loss supplements work by either increasing metabolic levels (Calories out), giving you enough energy to work out, or both. Some are better than others, and some (usually the overpriced ones that are advertised with outrageous claims) are crap. Some "pre-workout" stimulants (e.g., Jack3d, which I love) are great for shifting your metabolism into turbo mode; they do double-duty by making your workout more productive, and boosting your metabolism in general. The fat-loss stimulants which make a substantial difference are inevitably very powerful, and erroneously seen as dangerous in most cases. The infamous ephredrine was banned because it was effective and subsequently abused once it became popular; not because there is something inherently dangerous about it.

There are some other mental hacks you can do that help you to make exercise not a drudgingly painful experience; I'll talk about that and some relevant psychology in an upcoming post.

TL;DR

The key to energy and subsequently improving your body? Get your sleep, balance your food and exercise, and take stimulants if you need or want an extra boost.

Skinny Genes

If you're like me, you're not one of those naturally skinny people who can get away with eating whatever they want. While it's true that these people are genetically gifted with hyperactive thyroids, and it seems unfair to the rest of us 'normal' folk, way too many people take it the completely wrong way and figure that because they're genetically 'inferior,' it's not even worth the effort fighting DNA destiny.

To be clear, virtually no one is 'genetically fat.' Metabolic rates may vary a lot between individuals, but that really shouldn't matter as far as goals go. 'Predisposed' fat people just don't need that much food to subsist. What gets them there is when they eat the same as everyone else (or more, of course)-- living in a sedentary giant-portions culture doesn't help. So 'naturally' fat people are so just because it's easier for them to get that way, not because they are doomed to that existence. There is nothing keeping a 'genetically fat' person from achieving the body of a Greek god, or making that goal overly difficult.

Yes, I did recycle this picture-- it's so apt.

However, a lot of overweight people aren't that way just because of their hypoactive metabolisms; some simply put way too much coal into the furnace, but I believe most are victims of the high-carb and high-fat (yes, they're terrible together) modern diet.That's compounded when carbophiles become insulin resistant.

Relevant links:
Infographic
Relevant Fat Head video
Livestrong article on being doomed to be fat

I'll close with one of the most amazing transformation videos out there:

Why I Don't Like Crossfit

What it is

Crossfit. Chances are, you've seen some commercial or t-shirt or someone mentioning it on a social media site. It has become some sort of weird phenomenon in American fitness culture.

Personally, I hate it. Well, maybe 'hate' is too strong of a word. I strongly dislike it, and I'll show you why.

Firstly, it's a cult. Yeah, you read that right-- a fitness cult. Men's Health thinks so. Heck, crossfit even admitted it themselves. It's a widespread organization that tends to suck people in. It brainwashes them (no, seriously) to a certain extent and makes them blind to everything else. What do I mean by that? Well, first off, crossfitters think of themselves as totally awesome and the rest of the world sees them as insane. It turns people into sadists. The workouts are ludicrous and they love it. I remember a while back seeing someone on Facebook who used "puked" and ":D" in the same sentence.

Why it's retarded

People actually pay lots of money to do something in a group setting they could do on their own. Like, $100/month minimum, on top of gym dues (if applicable).

"Forging elite fitness" is their slogan (which is parodied in this blog). They consider themselves elite "athletes," when, in fact, their haphazard and unfocused crazy workouts leave them as jacks of all trades, and masters of none.

Most crossfit locations follow a "Workout of the Day," or WOD. It's typically a random combination of at least 3 stations, it has a rigid structire, and is done for time. Everyone does the same exact damn thing, regardless of skill level. As if that wasn't bad enough, good form is not emphasized, which is just begging for injury.

And then there are the kipping pullups.

Kipping (exploiting momentum to get one's body up the bar) pullups have a special place in crossfit hate, for obvious reasons. A kipping pullup might as well be called a "cheating" pullup, because all it does is enable you to do an arbitrarily large number of the exercise with ZERO practicality. YouTube videos of the exercise have incredibly low ratings-- and just look at the comments.

And for good measure, here's another blog post that roasts crossfit.


Devil's advocate

What it will do is get you into shape, and it does tend to make people look good, though it's definitely one of the most painful paths to accomplish this. Sometimes it goes too far with women's bodies, though.

Crossfit can show you your limits, and make them grow. Self-discipline and tenacity carries over to the real world. It teaches you how to overcome mental barriers, and if you're not a self-motivating type, it can show you how easy your "workouts" are in comparison. Good stuff can come out of pushing yourself so hard, as long as it doesn't burn you out (which is ultimately inevitable, anyway). Building character and what doesn't kill you and all that.